nerdy poly vegan chef taking things one day at a time. i'm married to an amazing woman and father to 3 incredible boys. trying to make sense of things and find my place in the grand scheme of things. feel free to ask any questions

4th August 2014

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X-Men Illustrations - Created by Tu Bui

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3rd August 2014

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Here’s another Weekend Giveaway for you guys!

We’ve got some shirts donated by the awesome Aplentee plus some merch from the Geek Studio store!

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3rd August 2014

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3rd August 2014

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i cheated on candace a couple of weeks ago after she told me she had lied and hidden a pregnancy and miscarriage for a month. i met up with someone i met off of craigslist. she and alex had picked out baby names and everything. i’ve never been so hurt or betrayed before. ontop of all this i had been feeling, neglected, unwanted and unappreciated since she started dating alex again. that doesn’t excuse what i did, i know that. what i did was horribly fucked up and unfair to her and our marriage. i just….i don’t know. there’s nothing that can justify what i did. i was just in a really bad place and i made an even worse decision. we’re going to work through this and make things work and i’m really glad for that. but, i still feel kind of numb at the moment. i know i love her and that i want to be with her. i guess part of the reason i feel numb is that i’m worried things won’t really change. it’s always felt like her other partners got 99% and i got 1%. when she started therapy, her therapist suggested that she focus on our marriage more and things got better. i felt closer to her, we talked more, there was more affection, etc. then she started dating alex again and it felt like all of that just instantly started to go away. i realize that they had a lot of things to work through, but it still hurt. i’m looking for a therapist for myself right now, i’ve had these same feelings ever since she started dating alex. and candace may be right that a part of them may just be in my head, but at the same time, if they’ve lasted this long, then maybe there is something there.

i know i’ve fucked up horribly and i’m doing everything i can to make this work. i spent the last week cleaning and decluttering the apartment. while candace, alex and the kids were at her moms. i feel lost and adrift. candace told me that i was her rock and that i was a part of her, but it hasn’t felt that way. i feel that i was the last person she turned to for help or advice and that any opinion i had was valued less than anyone else (especially alexs). 

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13th June 2014

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Everything you love is here


Everything you love is here

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30th May 2014

Quote reblogged from My Found Polyamory with 58 notes

A relationship is not doomed until the people in it stop talking to each other and start breaking dishes instead. Talk to your partner. Honestly. All the time. About everything.
— (via blurbamarachi)

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30th May 2014

Photoset reblogged from The Geek Critique with 5,186 notes


Artist of the Week - Dave Seeley

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26th April 2014

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X-MEN: DAYS OF FUTURE PAST - Official “Opening Battle” 

Release Date: May 23, 2014 
Studio: 20th Century Fox 
Director: Bryan Singer 
Screenwriter: Simon Kinberg 
Starring: Hugh Jackman, Ian McKellen, Patrick Stewart, James McAvoy, Jennifer Lawrence, Michael Fassbender, Nicholas Hoult, Anna Paquin, Ellen Page, Shawn Ashmore, Peter Dinklage, Omar Sy, Halle Berry, Daniel Cudmore, Fan Bingbing, Boo Boo Stewart, Adan Canto, Evan Peters, Josh Helman, Lucas Till 
Genre: Action, Adventure 
MPAA Rating: Not Available 

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26th April 2014

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Spread this shit like wildfire 


Spread this shit like wildfire 

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25th April 2014

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Hard to believe he is now captain america.

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