nerdy poly vegan chef taking things one day at a time. i'm married to an amazing woman and father to 3 incredible boys. trying to make sense of things and find my place in the grand scheme of things. feel free to ask any questions

18th May 2012

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and away she went

so she just left. i’m glad i got to spend a little extra time with her. i was a bit of an ass last night and it put a crimp in our plans :(. i’m trying to stay focused on all the things i do for her that he doesn’t. it’s hard. i miss her already. i’m making a conscious effort not to text her and tell her i miss her. i think i’m going to avoid texting her unless she texts me first. to be honest i would probably be more comfortable with her going if they were just friends instead of a couple. 

i don’t know if this means that i’m just weak and insecure and not cut out for this lifestyle or if it simply means that i need to grow up some more. maybe it’s a bit of all of it. maybe this weekend will do us some good. sometime apart to bring things to focus and perspective. can’t hurt right?

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  1. openmindedlover said: Its not easy for most when a partner goes away…ur a good man…give yourself credit for all the good in you…
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